Temitope Onifade
What kind of nonsense
is that? What do you expect me to do when they have misunderstandings and
fights? Will I allow my friend disrespect my dad? It’s unacceptable. I will
never approve such a thing. Even if my father is a widower, I still can’t allow
my friend date or even marry him.
This reminds me of a Yoruba saying: [Eni to
farugbo lo ma ra posi-meaning-It is she who marries an old man that will buy
the coffin]. If for any crazy reason, my
dad ignores my protest and begins to date my friend, I’ll leave them to their
fate. It’s a very stupid thing to do. Any friend of mine that goes as far as
dating my dad should say goodbye to our friendship. I will never date my
friend’s dad and I expect that none of my friends should try it with my dad.
Moreover, my dad is very old. I doubt if the babe will enjoy him.
Hammed Shakirat
No way. If I allow
her do that, that means she automatically becomes my step mother. My dad is a
very disciplined man and I know he will never do such a thing. Of all the women
in the world, why my friend? The age difference is just too much. Moreover, my
dad is too old. He doesn’t have the strength to match the intimate demands and
craving of my young friend. Look, I don’t want my dad to die young o.
Anuoluwapo Oguntuase
Ahan! It’s not
possible. That’s rubbish and it can never happen. My dad is too old for such
things. The only thing that could even prompt my dad to start thinking about
another wife is if we (his kids) want him to have a young wife who will look
after him. If we have to give him a wife, it will never be a city girl. We’ll
go and get him a village girl who will be respectful and attend to his needs
without driving him to an early grave. Most village girls are very disciplined.
My parents are old especially my dad. If I’m not aware of it and I find out,
I’ll sever my friendship with my friend immediately. Our friendship is as good
as over. Moreover, my dad is not in Lagos.
He’s safely tucked away in a village in Ekiti State.
Lanre Balogun
How can my friend
become my step mother? We’ll never be friends again and I’ll make sure we break
up the friendship immediately. It’s sickening to even think of it. I won’t hate
her but we won’t be as close as we were before. I don’t really care about such
things but I don’t like it. I’m not a temperamental person and I try not to
carry people’s problems on my head.
Lolade Oginni
I will never
condone such nonsense. If I find out, I might pack out. If my dad, for any Devilish
reason insists on dating her, there’ll never be peace. How can I become
submissive to my friend overnight? Lai-lai. Our friendship will come to an
abrupt end. I don’t keep friends who will creep behind me to start dating my
dad. Even if my dad is a widower, why should he go after my friend? If the
situation warrants that he gets a new wife, we’ll get him an older woman and
not my friend.
Omowunmi Rahimi
(Laughs) I’ll be
stunned if I ever discover such a thing. Moreover, my father is late. Even if he
were alive, I’d advise my friend against doing such a thing. If he were alive,
he’d be a very old man. I’ll advise my friend to go for a young guy. If my dad
insists, I’ll talk my friend out of it. It’s a very bad thing.
Sherifat Ajibade
There’s no way I
can allow that because it’s not good. I know some people do it but it’s wrong.
I don’t like it. The important thing is that I dissuade my friend from nursing
such thoughts. Same goes for my father. I’ll ask him if he can allow me date
his friend?
Omotayo Oyediran
Never! I won’t
allow it for any reason at all. Such a thing will most likely work against me
in the future. It’s rubbish. Our friendship is bound to suffer. Do you expect
me to remain friends with someone like that? If my dad ever insists on going
out with my friend, I’ll simply leave the house for both of them. It’s a very
bad thing for any friend to do.
Now that you have heard them speak out their hearts, would you slap or hug your friend if you ever find out she's involved with your dad?
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